Avoiding Scammers

Scammers are stepping up their game with paid websites, social media accounts and telegram channels. I don't envy clients having to navigate these ads, but you can use some common sense precautions. Recently, I've had people ask to call and hear my voice to see if I am real. This is pointless. Scammers will allow you to call, have you send your payment and then they block you. I have heard this from several clients. Hearing a female voice is no guarantee that you are not talking to a scammer. A common theme is stealing photos of attractive young women to attract men and then stealing photos of of an amazing dungeon and putting both in the same ad with not one single photo of the domme in the dungeon shown. While it's common to have professional studio type photos, you should be able to find a photo of the domme in her own dungeon or maybe you can ask for one. Instagram accounts are nuked so often that a long history there might be unlikely but twitter/x isn't as strict, so look for a long twitter history and message her there to confirm it's her and ask her to confirm the last 4 digits of your phone number to prove it's the person you are talking to. Don't just fall for a bunch of fake posts, but actually check for engagement on the posts and check the date that the account was created. Anyone can email me for free on niteflirt to confirm my identity and my account has over 10 years of feedback. Do they? No. They ask for things that prove nothing, like hearing my voice.

The "lifestyle dommes" scammers offering a free relationship in a paid Leolist ad are known to ask for $1800 to join a club and the "fee" is to join the club and use the club play space with her. Thankfully a scam victim posted online to warn others. It wasn't hard to find. Of course they use photos of legitimate dommes, so maybe an image search is warranted to see who the pics actually belong to. I would recommend messaging on the oldest and most official looking social media account, doing a reverse image search and searching the fake name they are using to see if any websites and social media come up.. If they are using the real name, you can check to make sure that person is actually touring your city and message on the official account. If you are a domme who puts full face photos out there without a watermark, they will steal those pics to scam clients for deposits and more. Those photos require the less effort than using a watermark remover. I've also seen screenshots of webcam sessions, used by scammers who were posing as the provider. I've even had guys ask "how much for 5 minutes of cam" after I refused to send photos with no watermark, for free. I know someone who fell prey to The Lady Roberta scam ads where the photos were clearly all different women with the heads cropped off. Another sure sign of a scammer is posting in person session availability in every city at the same time in order to do a big deposit grab before disappearing and coming back with new photos.

When I first placed an ad in another city, for online sessions, I added a link to my website to show legitimacy.. One guy emailed to tell me that his genius detective work revealed that I was a scammer. So, he clicked on my site link, saw that I don't live there and didn't bother to read the ad....like at all...where it said "not visiting your city" and came to the conclusion that I am impersonating myself and obviously doing a very poor job of it lol. Why would a scammer link the website of the domme they are impersonating, so it could easy be verified through a simple contact? Being this dense, I imagine he was scammed several times and had a "gotcha" moment where he could feel smart, because getting ripped off makes you feel dumb. He got to say whatever he fantasized about saying to every scammer who took his money and blocked him and he was so puffed up and proud of himself that it was like he just went pee pee in the potty for the very first time. It's just sad that he didn't actually learn anything about spotting scammers. Some of the most intelligent, conscientious people I know second guess themselves, because getting it right matters and some of the biggest morons strut through life with unfettered confidence. If you aren't sure, spend 10 minutes trying to make sure the scammer don't win and that you get the experience you are looking for.