Do you ever visit my city?
No.  My subs travel to me.  I put a great deal of time into creating my dungeon and that is where I prefer to play.  I also have responsibilities, like rescue animals that depend on me.
Can we be friends?
If you can respect boundaries and refrain from talking about your kinks during my personal time, then it's possible.  I don't allow any conversation that can be jerked off too.  There has been no shortage of males trying to befriend me in order to